The Prayer Series – Carrying the Burden and Heart of God

Have you ever felt a sudden, inexplicable sense of heaviness in your heart as you went about your day? Have you ever felt the emotions of another person so deeply that it could’ve been your own? Or perhaps felt so strongly about a certain issue that you felt your heart would burst?

If the answer to any of the above is yes (and you are not suffering from depression or bi-polar disorder), then it is highly likely that God has placed the burdens of His heart in yours. He is probably calling you to the ministry of intercession – carrying the burden and heart of God.

I know that the term “intercession” has been thrown around A LOT ever since the prophetic movement began. I have met many, many people who claim the title of Intercessor. What’s worse, they use it as some sort of leverage in climbing the (perceived) Church social ladder. Don’t even get me started on how wrong it all is on so many fronts.

Let me just clarify that I am not talking about some high and lofty ministry that only the elite or spiritually astute are allowed into.

Do I believe that there are some people called specifically to deep intercession? Yes I do. But I firmly believe that that kind of intercession is a call from God – not to be taken lightly nor frivolously. And especially NOT to be used for personal gain or glory.

But the kind of intercession I am writing about today is the kind that all children of God are called to. We are all called to be carriers of the burdens of God, and to be brought into the innermost sanctums of His heart. He wants closeness, oneness, with us. He desires to share the deepest secrets of His heart to those who would be willing.

What does carrying the heart of God look like?

When the burden of God is placed within you, it is inevitable that you experience times of immense sadness or feel deeply troubled in your heart for someone/a situation.  It could even bring anger into the mix. The good kind of anger. Like the time Jesus, being SO consumed with zeal for the house of God, cleansed the temple by overturning tables and whipping stuff (Matthew 21).

Sometimes, that burden comes for no explicable reason – it could happen when you’re on the train, watching the news, or talking to someone.  Often, it causes your heart to stir so strongly on the inside that you are more preoccupied with the stirring than your surroundings.  I use the word “stirring” instead of “prayer” because it more accurately describes what takes place within a person who is carrying the heartbeat of God – it is like a strong energy that moves in the heart that often does not have words.

In times like these, you often do not have to pray specific words.

It might feel like your heart is pushing and moving like a wrestler, or like a volcano that is about to erupt.  There could be times that you need to physically let out the stirring in your heart through crying, groaning, praying in tongues or worship. Or you might experience a strong movement in the pit of your stomach – just like John the Baptist leaping in his mother’s womb (Luke 1:41).  Likewise, there will be times that your spirit man is moved in that way.

This kind of intercession takes place deep within a person as the Holy Spirit intercedes through us (Romans 8:26). And it is extremely powerful because, well, when God is crying out to God, how can God not answer?

What are some ways we carry the heart of God?

There are some night seasons that deep movements are going on in my spirit whilst I sleep – this might include tears or warfare.  In the morning, I usually wake up with a word, verse, or song on my lips.

There are times that my inner man is deeply moved and stirred on a particular subject, and once that burden is lifted, I see the situation changed almost immediately.  An example of this happened when I was at a gathering of intercessors from all across the nation. Through the day my one thought was, “I wish so-and-so (a particular church leader whom I don’t even know personally) was here – he really needs to be part of this!”  My heart stirred so strongly, and the one cry that I had the entire day was, “He must be part of this!”

Finally, at the last hour of the meeting, this person arrived – he was completely disheveled and drenched by the rain, but he showed up. And some significant things happened at the meeting when he did. God is always on the lookout for people in whom He can place the desires of His heart, and who would cry out to Him to let His will be done here on earth as it is in heaven. Powerful things happen then.

Part of the journey is also learning how to recognize the burdens of God’s heart and distinguish that from our own emotions. I believe that is why surrender and consecration is so important in the life of every believer – the more I decrease, the more God increases. I want to be one to whom He can entrust the secrets of His heart.

How can I be a carrier of God’s heart?

Ask Him! It really is all that simple (:  I know that there are probably plenty of lists of Dos and Don’ts out there on the WWW (and I do not disagree with them), but I just want to say that all God is looking for is a willing heart. You just say “Yes” to Him, precious ones, and let Him take it from there. Trust me, dear Holy Spirit will swoop in and become the greatest teacher you will ever need to walk with Him.

John Masefield said, “God warms his hands at man’s heart when he prays.” How beautiful, how awesome, how mind-blowing that we can bring pleasure to God’s heart.

God longs for more of His children to come deeper into His heart. We each have been given access. The question now is, will we say “Yes”?

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Saying Goodbye: When Is It Right, And How Do We Do It?

Farewell. Sayonara. Au revoir. See you later. The human race has come up with so many ways to say goodbye.

The sentiment, however, is universal – it is one of the hardest things most people have to say. It could be saying goodbye to a long-term relationship, a job, a dearly beloved, dreams, hopes & ideals, or even… (hear the Marthas gasp in horror) a ministry. These goodbyes generally involve some tears, sadness, fear, and even anger.

Goodbye is also (in my opinion) one of the most misunderstood words in any language. Some of us see it as a dreadful, horrible thing. Some of us rush through it in an effort to abbreviate the pain. Others of us are flippant and indifferent. Most of us are helpless and clueless when it comes to saying goodbye properly.

I believe that certain goodbyes are necessary, good, and when done properly, healing to the soul.

In my years of walking with God, I have gone through seasons of transition that gave me a first-hand taste of the ups-and-downs of goodbyes. Some I understood, and some I didn’t. None of them were easy.

Paraphrasing the words of Bilbo Baggins, “It is a dangerous thing, friends, this business of walking with God. You step onto the road, and there’s no knowing where you might be swept off to.”

When is it ok to say goodbye? How do we know when it is right to leave, or let something/someone go? How do we say goodbye right? Dear friends, I humbly present my thoughts on this subject to you.

It is time to say goodbye (to a job/relationship/ministry/ideals) when:

1. It is wrong. We’ve all been there – that one thing which we find so difficult to walk out of. It could be a friendship, romantic relationship, mentorship, ministry, job, addiction, or even a family member. We often stay because of guilt or fear, and that is never a good basis for anything. If your heart is telling you that something is wrong, even if it looks right to everyone else, then LEAVE. Live your life according to the will and fear of God, not the fear of man – because when you meet Him face to face, He is only one to whom you will have to give an account of how you lived your life.

2. You stagnate. If you find yourself plateauing, stagnating, not growing, it is most likely time for a change (of course, do check if your lack of growth is because of a bad attitude or an unteachable heart). Any season that God brings us into – be it a mountain top or valley season – will always cause us to grow, mature, be challenged and sharpened.

3. The detriment of staying is greater than the pain of saying goodbye. Saying goodbye can be painful for us and the people we are saying goodbye to. Most times, it can even cause us to be misunderstood. Irresponsible, heartless, foolish, wrong, backslidden – I’ve been named these and more through the years. Saying goodbye is painful, difficult, and oftentimes lonely. But when the prospect of not saying goodbye, of remaining where I am, hurts me more than being misunderstood, then I know that I really have to do this. When you know that you are doing what pleases God and what He wants for your life, it is worth it even if you have to face all the accusations and disapproval of man.

4. It is time for a new season in your life. Need I say more? (:

5. Things are too comfortable and too logical.  God is a God of order and logic, but His ways and thoughts are often way higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9). I am not saying that we should live irresponsibly, nor does this give us an excuse to be erratic, unstable, fickle, inconstant, undependable, unreliable, unmanageable, impulsive… you get the idea. What I am trying to say is that sometimes, just sometimes, we can build our lives on our own wisdom & strength and in the process miss out on where God is leading us. His ways usually involve some elements of faith on our part, which means that we cannot fully understand nor control our circumstances. If things are getting too comfortable and too logical, it is a good idea to take some time for reflection and prayer about what God is up to in your life.

How to say goodbye in a way that is healing to your soul:

1. Cry, rage, rejoice if you need to. That’s right. Let all those emotions out. Savor them. Do not gloss over them, and definitely do not brush them under the carpet. Allowing your heart to feel is an important part of the process to closing one chapter of your life and starting a new one.

2. Be gentle on yourself and others. It is perfectly fine to feel sad, or to need some time to come to terms with things. Saying goodbye does not come easy to most people, so give yourself (and others) a break.

3. Talk about how you feel. Honestly. Talk, write, reflect, talk some more. Let your heart, mind and soul fully process what is happening. Only then will you ever find the proper closure that you’ll need before starting the next chapter in your life.

4. Do things that make you laugh and come alive. Remind your heart that life is so much bigger than what you are saying goodbye to.

5. Give time, time, and more time. Some goodbyes take longer to recover from than others, but all things are made beautiful in time. Let God take His time to work His magic in your heart.

There are many other ways and reasons to say goodbye; the ones I shared are just a few of what I have learnt along the journey of my life. You, dear reader, may have different circumstances and new perspective on this (which I would love to hear about, by the way!).

But whichever the season of life and where you come from, I pray that God would release His grace upon each one of us. That we would find the strength and courage to walk in the unique paths He has carved out for each of our lives. And remember that there are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind!

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Godly Wives: Spiritual Life in Marriage (By Lisa Jacobson)

A guest post. Godly Wives is a space where women talk candidly and honestly about real issues in marriage.

I suppose I took it for granted.

After all, I had been a missionary in Africa. Graduated from seminary. He was heavily involved in Christian publishing. We were both serious about our faith.

A spiritual match made in heaven.  

You’d think.

Yeah, I figured our spiritual connection would just fall into place. Naturally and easily. I somehow imagined we’d wake up from our honeymoon and start praying together. Studying the Bible. Memorizing verses and maybe entire chapters.

Our lives together would be one long spiritual retreat.

Um…not exactly. As it turned out, I still had to make breakfast. And he had to rush off to work. And I got pregnant and woke up felt more like throwing up than praying. We had diapers to change and meetings to attend. Things that don’t generally happen on spiritual retreats.

Much to my disappointment something called everyday life kept interfering with our spiritual connection.

If we wanted to enjoy a spiritual walk together, we were going to have to do something about it. It clearly wasn’t going to happen on it’s own.

So over the years, we’ve found these things to help us build a stronger spiritual connection.

1.  Set realistic expectations. You don’t need to have daily devotions together to be “spiritual”. Sure, I love it when my husband and I pray together, but it doesn’t always work out for us. Thankfully, all-night prayer vigils and intensive Bible studies are not essential to enjoy a a spiritual walk with each other. So don’t set yourself up for disappointment by your own strict definition of what it means to be “spiritual”.

2.  Let God into those little moments. Stop to praise the Lord when an unexpected check arrives in the mail. Cry out to Him when your family is sick or hurting. Sometimes I simply whisper into my husband’s ear that I thank God for him. It’s not a Bible study or a formal prayer, but these are truly spiritual moments. And I find our days – and years – are mostly made up of such holy times.

3.  Pray for each other. Or simply pray for him. We’ve drawn closer to each other during those seasons when the only thing I could do was silently lift him up. Without fully realizing it, I was ministering to him in the midst of those difficult days. And I’ve had situations where I needed the same kind of care. Don’t fix it for me. Don’t preach to me. Just pray for me.

4.  Don’t neglect your own spiritual life. You don’t want to wait for him to initiate something together and in the meanwhile leave off with your own spiritual growth. Focus on your own Bible-reading and prayer time. Ask God to do His work in you. The two of you are one flesh – so when one of you is growing? It’s a blessing to you both.

5.  Encourage – rather than judge – his spiritual walk. It’s so easy for us to start to think of ourselves as “spiritually superior” to the other person. His sin, his shortcomings, are so evident to us. But the Bible specifically warns us against this kind of thinking. Instead, decide to be his quiet encourager. Be someone who walks alongside him, rather than one who presides over him.

Slowly, surely, over the years, my husband and I have been able to build a solid, spiritual connection. Perhaps not “one long spiritual retreat”, but a spiritual journey all the same.

And maybe that kind is even better.

*This is the first of a three-part series on Pursuing a Deeper Spiritual Life in Your Marriage. Next week: How a Wife Can Encourage the Spiritual Life of Her Husband.

 

Lisa is the happily-ever-after wife of Matthew L. Jacobson, literary agent and writer, and together they enjoy raising 8 children. Please join her over at Club31Women, a blog for any wife, mother, or sister who is looking for Biblical encouragement and inspiration.

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Idream of Eden. We were made for the Garden and the full pleasure of paradise. We got separated at Eden and we spend our whole lives searching for a way back into that secret paradise. All of life's pursuit + pain + questioning can be traced back to man's search for home. Our deepest instincts tell us that we are not home outside of this reality, and our souls will never stop searching until we return. Only there will we find rest and our true being. There, we begin to dream again the dreams that have laid asleep in our hearts all along.

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